Are We A Different Person?

Depending On Who Is Perceiving Us

It is so interesting to me to see how we “change” depending on who is perceiving us… For example… For the last couple of years I have consistently been a very “changed” person… Compared to how I used to be the prior thirty years of my life… I feel the best and the happiest I have ever consciously felt in all my life and yet… At any given moment in time… I am a “different ” person for different people… One sees me and finds me very uplifting… Very beautiful… Very spiritual… And the next second someone else has something to say in a somewhat critical way…

Similar To A Microscope

This is so intriguing and so very interesting to me… I have been reflecting on this a lot lately and have realized that it all “works” in a way similar to a microscope… The closer it gets to the “object” … The more details… The farther from the “object” … The more general… The less details and therefore the less “friction” … Something very similar to what I mention in the book “Energies In My Body… The Greatest Blessings Of My Life!!!” (Chapter 7) …

Closeness And Friction

Usually the closer we are to the person… The more critical and hard and harsh the person is to us… And the more uncomfortable it makes us feel many times… And yet… These are the exact people that we love and they love us the most… But they are the most difficult ones to deal with (both ways) …

Love

And it is that they love us… And we love them so much… That we/they would not want anything bad/displeasing to happen to them/us… Not an event… Not an action… Not even a feeling… Not even a thought… We want to protect them so much that we act that way towards them… They want to protect us so much, that they act that way towards us… We love them so much that we react very deeply to what they say/do… And vice versa…

Depending On The Tie

And this can be very detrimental to any relationship in the end… Some ties are pretty much unbreakable… Regardless of the situation… But some (like marriages, friendships, etc) cannot survive the intensity of this type of interaction… And they break apart…

And even looking at it from the physics standpoint… It is perfectly understandable…

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